Fry the coconut, almonds and sesame seeds in a pan, on low heat, until it turns slightly brown. Add cardamom and almond powder, mix and add condensed milk. Mix well and set aside
For the pastry, rub the butter into the flour with your fingertips until it forms fine breadcrumbs
Pour the milk, a little at a time until the dough comes together. Do not overmix the dough. Remember you want a flaky pastry so overhandling the dough will result in a stiff pastry. Divide the dough into two portions. Roll out each portion of dough about 26cmx30cm , approximately 3mm thickness, and cut out round circles with a cookie cutter, 8cm will do.
Place a teaspoon of filling onto one side of each circle and fold it over, spread some of the flour paste on the edges of the circle. Bring the edges together and press it down with your fingertips
You can make a rope like design on the edge of the poli or you can press it with a fork
Fry the poli in hot oil over medium heat. Serve warm